Best Oral Sex Tips for Dummies

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Are blow jobs good for women’s health?

Most people think blow jobs are useful for men only. Not even close! Oral sex is able to excite a woman no less than a man, and in some cases even to bring to an orgasm. By the way, the share of your partner’s effort here is insignificant, because he is not supposed to work hard. The woman is actually able to come (or at least to get ready for this pleasure) by stimulating the erogenous zones, masturbating, touching his hips with nipples.

A blow job is an excellent antidepressant. You will never guess, but clutching the dingle-dangle with lips, intensifies your nerve endings. Such manifestations result in a high production of oxytocin, the hormone of happiness, which has a beneficial effect on the nervous system. Sexologists say, women who are doing the blowjob regularly, tend to be more stress resistant.

Furthermore, the sperm contains a unique set of vitamins, hormones and trace elements. Men’s hormones stimulate body’s metabolism, causing the production of female hormones. Thus, girls tend to become more attractive, fresh, as well as their skin. That is why sexologists recommend sex without a condom. Besides, vaginal walls absorb nutrients, which improve the overall physiological and mental health of a woman.

Powerful oral sex techniques

  • Do not jump on your man like a wild animal. He will not escape from you. Tell your partner that he will be your dessert, and you are going to eat it raw, and whisper it into his ear making the moment more erotic.
  • Undress him. Start with a gentle massage. Start with his shoulders, then back, chest, … Then, take off his pants.
  • Do not rush the process. Do not try to swallow his cock immediately or take it into your mouth, tease it instead. Go with your tongue go from bottom to top, gently hooking testicles. Stroke the testicles your fingers, or even take them into your mouth. While working with your tongue, use the broad side to go to the bottom and the sharp side to go up to the bell-end.
  • Stroke his penis and gently lick the head. The first contact of your tongue his head is the divine moment of any blowjob, your partner may even twitch or try to dodge. Do not let him do it and hold him gently.
  • Here, everything is under control, you took his penis into your mouth. Swallow it as deep as possible and release. Keep in mind that your throat is not endless.
  • Continue to squeeze and release the penis shaft with your hand. Follow his penis up and down with lips, doing it in different tempo: a little faster, then slower. Mind, you’re not a packing machine, so do not do it as a machine.
  • Change the capture of the penis, grasp it with your fingers gently and start masturbating it. Meanwhile, go down again and touched his testicles with your lips. Lips have to be wet, or you have a risk of running into resistance and hurt your man instead.
  • Focus your attention on the head. Take it into your mouth and make the round motions with your tongue around the head as quickly as possible. Try touching the bridle zone with your tongue (as if you do it unintentionally) if you want this experience to be really bright.
  • Decided to bring him to orgasm? Continue to caress the head with your tongue and lips. By the way, do not hesitate to help yourself with hands massaging the penis staff. Keep up to his ejaculation.

Oral sex secrets for experienced couples

  • Well, how about surprising him? Let him cum right into your mouth. However, if the thought of swallowing sperm makes you nauseous, then substitute the mouth with under your breasts chest, stomach, or face (any place, you are okay with). Ladies, do not worry, the sperm is tasty and healthy (if the man is healthy). One ejaculation will give you a portion the purest protein of about 15 kcal.
  • Over some time, you may switch to caressing partner’ perineum ( the area between the testicles and anus) and even introduce him to massage the prostate gland.
  • Oral sex should build endearment rather than resentment. Try a different oral sex position. There are plenty of them, although most partners use classic ones or 69 position only. By the way, you may simply improve the traditional positions for your couple. For instance, you may ask your partner to put a pillow under his hips, which will give you some space to breathe and will evaluate his penis. The same is about standing up position; do not forget to use a pillow for your knees. By the way, kneeling is not obligatory in this position. Make yourself comfortable! You may simply substitute kneeling with sitting.

Well, another great position may be the one called Head Off the Bed position. This one allows lovers to explore deeper oral penetration. Thus your head should lie over the edge of the bed (or a dinner table, if you want to make it crazy) and the neck should be bent backward. Your mouth and your throat will line up, which will enable your partner to get deeper. The deep throating is a great pleasure for men. Choose the right height. Keep that in mind.

Make you partner feel like he is a king and try The Throne position. Let him sit in a comfortable chair and kneel in front of him. Allow him to watch sports, porn or whatever he enjoys in the process. Believe, he will not forget this experience. You may also put a beverage in his hand or a cigar.

The golden rule of blow jobs

Do NOT make your man feel your teeth during a blowjob. Ever! It can be a very painful experience. Furthermore, it may be rather difficult to correct your mistake and make him trust you again.

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